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We stopped losing when I stopped trying to “fix” them

We stopped losing when I stopped trying to “fix” them

April 16, 20252 min read

We’ve now won 3 games in a row...

My under-8 girls soccer team went from getting smashed week after week…

To becoming a proper little winning machine.

And it all changed the moment I stopped trying to “fix” them.

Here’s what I mean…

We don’t have the most talented squad.

Only a couple girls can really play.

One of them (my daughter) has freakish fitness—she’ll run for days.

One of them knows how to score.

The rest?

Sweet girls.

But most had barely touched a ball before the season started.

So I stopped trying to turn them all into midfield maestros.

Instead, I built a system around what we did have.

→ The fast one runs box to box

→ The finisher stays up front

→ The others? I drilled them to tackle and launch the ball forward

That’s it. Simple. Effective. Clear roles.

And it’s working.

Now here’s where this matters for you as a business owner or CEO…

Most founders build their businesses trying to “fix” everything.

Fix the team.

Fix their own weaknesses.

Fix every department they don’t fully understand.

But the best leaders—the ones scaling past 1M/month?

1. They double down on their strengths

2. They realign the business around who they actually are

3. And they upgrade their self-image so they can operate from power, not pressure

That’s what we do inside the Alchemy Workshop—and the next one is happening this Thursday.

If you’re already doing 10K/month or more and you know you’ve outgrown the version of yourself you’ve been leading from…

>>> Reserve your seat here

Together, we’ll help you see the strengths you’ve been overlooking…

Rewire the way you operate.

And install the mindset of the version of you who scales with clarity and confidence.

Not through hustle.

Through alignment.

To winning over and over,

Mark "The Mil-A-Month Mentor" Dhamma, MA

Trusted by 7-Figure Coaches, Consultants, Agencies & High Ticket Offer Owners to Quantum Leap Their Revenue To A Mil-A-Month.

  • BSc Sports Science & Physiology

  • MA Positive Organizational Psychology

  • Coaching Entrepreneurs To Exponential Business Growth Since 2008

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P.S. You don’t need a new business. You need a new mirror.

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